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One of the biggest misconceptions about lucid dreaming is that trying to induce lucidity—rather than letting it come spontaneously—will only produce low-quality lucid dreams. Not soulful encounters, and certainly not big dreams.
I find this so ironic because lucid dreaming as a life practice is one of the most reliable portals to measured self-growth and impactful spiritual experience available to us.
The soulful lucid dreamer knows that lucid dreaming practices are not cheap cognitive “tricks,” but reflections of a deeper lucidity in waking life. Lucid dreams are a gift, a sign that we are paying attention to what matters most.
And this is a big deal, because let’s face it, our waking lives are not as lucid as we’d like to think they are. It’s so easy to fall into cognitive domestication, that state of being in which we are conditioned by daily habit and layers upon layers of other people’s agendas for our purpose.
Here’s where the irony becomes something more, a paradox: even though lucid dreaming is first and foremost known as “dream control,” soulful lucid dreamers have found that letting go of control and surrendering to the dream is the key to unlocking big dreams, those extraordinary experiences often written about in the mystical literature and remembered for a lifetime.
Lucid dreaming get real when we use our control to let go of control.
What are big dreams?
I’m talking about dreams that include:
- Experiences of white light,
- Abstract geometric imagery,
- Tunnels and vortices,
- Pools of clear water and other “wild” natural settings
- Ecstatic feelings of union,
- Meetings with ancestors and otherworldly figures, and
- Profound numinosity, that sense of presence often associated with the divine or God.
However, I have to admit that soulful lucid dreaming is not all light and bliss.
Encountering Dark Light
Many a dreamer has had more challenging experiences that closely resemble initiation rites, including encounters with creepy mythological creatures, descent into cold and unpleasant places, and in general, themes of confrontation, pain and even death.
For the lucid dreamer, these uncomfortable encounters often take the shape of a profound emotional challenge that magnifies to an apocalyptic fervor that feels like the end of the world.
Not to worry, this is due to the emotional structure of the dreamscape. Fear and resistance are part of our cognitive heritage. You can’t walk away from this eventuality, especially during lucid dreams that last longer than a couple minutes.
Why a couple minutes? It’s almost like there’s a guardian to these spaces, requiring the ability to maintain focus for longer than the time it takes to watch the typical youtube video.
Some more common experiences of lucid dreamers who have been challenged by soulful lucidity:
- Negative expectation and spiraling fear in the lucid dream
- Inability to fly or other dream shifting skills
- Out-of-control dream drama, leading to a loss of lucidity or waking up
- Distracting, angry or unhelpful dream figures
- Unpleasant and repetitive scenarios from the past
- Full on lucid nightmares in which you wake up terrified
Exploring and learning from these realms with respect yields surprising gifts for the dreamer. First of all, these particular road blocks vanish and we are ushered into new levels of lucidity that were not possible before. But perhaps the most surprising is that these harrowing encounters can be more impactful than the blissful light we would prefer to feel.
This transformative path follows its own rules, but if we show up in our dreams with integrity, compassion and a willingness to learn (rather than to take), the dreams will transform our lives. Emotional healing, catharsis, and the recovery of trapped creative energy are common themes for soulful dreamers who have entered into this dark light of lucidity.
Ryan Hurd
http://dreamstudies.org/2016/04/05/what-happens-when-we-let-go-of-control-in-our-lucid-dreams/