Self Fulfilling Prophecy – Did You Make It Happen?

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selffulfilling prophecy is a prediction that comes true at least in part as a result of a person’s belief or expectation that the prediction would come true. – wikipedia

Social and Relationship Examples:
  • Assuming Rejection: A person believes a new acquaintance won’t like them, so they act cold or distant. The acquaintance picks up on this behavior and acts distant in return, confirming the initial fear of rejection.
  • The “Boring” Party: Going to a party believing it will be dull causes you to stay in a corner, resulting in few conversations and confirming that the party was, in fact, boring.
  • Negative Stereotypes: Preconceived negative notions about a group can lead to harsh treatment, which causes members of that group to react negatively, reinforcing the original prejudice.
Educational and Workplace Examples (Pygmalion Effect): 
  • Teacher Expectations: A teacher who expects certain students to perform poorly may subconsciously give them less attention and praise, resulting in lower grades for those students.
  • Managerial Bias: A manager who doubts an employee’s abilities might micromanage them, leading to decreased employee confidence and performance.
  • The “Jan-Mar” Birthdate Advantage: In youth hockey, older children born in the first three months of the year are often wrongly assumed to be better because they are physically larger. Coaches give them more attention, which develops their skills, making them better players.
Personal Beliefs and Mental Health:
  • Exam Anxiety: Believing you will fail an exam causes anxiety and lack of preparation, which in turn leads to failing the exam.
  • Social Anxiety: Worrying about appearing nervous in front of others can cause extreme tension, leading to the very behavior (shaking, awkwardness) the person feared.
  • Self-Sabotage: Someone who believes they are unlovable may act in ways that drive partners away, confirming their belief.
Economic and Historical Examples:
  • Bank Runs: A rumor spreads that a bank is insolvent, leading to a panic, causing customers to withdraw all their money, which ultimately forces the bank to close.
  • Panic Buying: Reports of a shortage cause consumers to buy in excess, directly creating the shortage.
  • Oedipus Rex: Trying to avoid a prophecy (that he would kill his father and marry his mother), Oedipus leaves home, which leads him directly to the circumstances where he does both.

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Have you ever had the experience of waking up one day following a lousy night’s sleep after several nightmares and thought to yourself: “this is going to be a crappy day”, and at the end of the day concluded that your predictions were correct and this was exactly what happened? You may have been thinking to yourself that you completely predicted the outcome of your day, and that you probably should have stayed at home this day.

The self-fulfilling prophecy is a concept used by the American sociologist Robert Merton to describe how a statement may alter actions and therefore become true. In situations where many individuals act on the basis of an expectation, they may actually influence whether an incident will take place or not. When this is happening the individuals create the very conditions they actually believe exist. Even when where there is no reason to worry, the feared outcome may take place if enough people act as if there were some kind of basis for the fear.

Self-fulfilling prophecies often lead to unfavorable outcomes. The dire expectation that an event may take place may have serious consequences, such as bankruptcies, scarcity of food and goods, pressures on the stock-markets, and may even lead to wars. People may for example, act on a false rumor that the stocks will decline, or that there will be a shortage of butter in the close future. If enough people act on these false rumors by selling their stocks and buying huge quantities of butter, they will actually cause the expected event to occur.

One example of the self-fulfilling prophecy is the placebo effect. The placebo effect has been demonstrated in several studies, and may be described as the felt improvement in health but which is not attributable to the medication, or the given treatment. Instead, the patient’s belief in the treatment will enhance the immune system, and lead to faster recovery.

The self-fulfilling prophecy has also been demonstrated in experiments where people justify their prejudices toward members of other ethnic groups. This could be illustrated by the following statement: “We don’t want those people here because they only stick to themselves anyway, they are so chauvinistic on behalf of themselves.”

While the self-fulfilling prophecy doesn’t have the force to alter natural events such as hurricanes or earthquakes, your personal attitude may influence smaller everyday situations as how you relate to other people and their response to your behavior. If you apply an optimistic mindset you may for example influence other people to perceive you in a positive way.

People who tend to be caught in negative self-fulfilling prophecies often suffer from low self-esteem where they act upon an overly critical self-evaluation. They tend to have a pessimistic view on the world and their chances to influence their own situation for the better. This leads to a vicious cycle, where their negative mindset strengthens their self-fulfilling prophecies.

In sum, increased awareness of how to avoid the negative effects of self-fulfilling prophecies may be for the good not only for people in their daily lives, but also for society as a whole.

Joachim Vogt Isaksen – http://www.popularsocialscience.com/2012/12/27/the-self-fulfilling-prophecy/