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Sexual energy as we know it is mostly a biological impulse and process with some basic (etheric/astral) processes accompanying them. Only animals orgasm. Neither plants nor ‘angels’ orgasm. It’s an animal function. If you’re biologically programmed for it, you can experience it.
The craving for sex is an animal craving like hunger or thirst. One can add atop that some higher aspects like love for a partner, just as a meal can be lovingly shared between friends or lovers. With those higher connections fully active, you get a full spectrum experience within the limits of what humans can do without being psychic. This is healthy for morale and relationships.
But at the foundation it’s an animal act that’s centered in the root chakra. Tantric practices can even it out with some higher chakra activations but we must keep in mind that higher beings can do the latter even more intensely without ever going through physical intercourse and physical orgasm.
Which means that, for many people, sex is subconsciously an attempt to achieve this kind of higher spiritual/psychic fusion with another person, but the body acts as a wall keeping them apart (due to the lack of psychic ability). This means sex can be a poor substitute for what is really desired at the core level, which is temporary psychic fusion, and the falling short adds to its addictive property since it’s never permanently fulfilling at a deep enough level.
On the etheric side of things, sexual energy actually starts as non-sexual raw lifeforce energy that enters your system via the root chakra. If it’s not sent up to the higher chakras for creative purposes, it builds up on the lower chakras and reinforces the biological sex drive, and that’s what we normally know as sexual energy. But the latter, libido/lust, is more of a derivative product rather than the original energy.
Now, the biological impulse for sex can build up in a person unless it’s transmuted. If it builds up, is ignored, suppressed, etc. it can lead to dysfunctions which can be psychosomatic (medical, physical problems) or psychological problems (armoring like what Wilhelm Reich talked about) or outright perversion like with those Catholic priests displacing the suppressed impulse upon little boys since they were programmed to not think sinful thoughts about women.
So if a person can’t transmute it by channeling raw creative energy into artistic/devotional/divine pursuits (like the kind that fill them with metaphysical rapture and make them forget all about sex let alone eating, etc.) then if they instead have sexual impulses but forcefully suppress it, then that just leads to pressure build up that becomes more and more annoying if not dangerous. That means it can backfire and twist a person up.
Hence some kind of release is necessary for those who aren’t transmuting it. The trick is that there’s an optimal and minimal level for that, where if you do it even more then you’re creating unnecessary thought-forms and feeding and addiction. Like compulsive porn watchers—thoughtforms are created and surround the person and compel more of the same act, and over time this can corrode the soul like termites eating the walls.
Ideally, it would be transmuted to where it doesn’t build up in the first place, hence nothing to suppress… but if it does build up, there has to be a healthy, loving, moderate, and conscientious release of it. Fetishism and perversion deviate the energy into dark occult thoughtforms that cause other problems in life, so that has to be minimized. With a loving partner and healthy mindset, the social and psychological benefits can outweigh the occult cons. Just keep in mind that sex isn’t the primary form of interpersonal fulfillment among higher beings or even older mature human relationships, so it shouldn’t be seen as the centerpiece of one’s existence.
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